Valentine's Week

This Valentine's Day, we did things a little differently.  Every family member had to earn their dinner by answering quetions about other family members (What is their favorite toy, book, thing to do in their spare time..).  It turned out really fun.  And in the end, we had yummy pulled pork sandwhiches and homeade potato chips - YUM!  Everytime I read the For the Strength of Youth pamphlet there is a line in the family section that sticks out to me, "Concern yourself with the needs of other family members."  I want my kids to always show interest in their siblings!  That is the goal anyway. 
Jared and I got to go on a long over-due date night last night (Thanks To All of the Rust Girls).   We went shopping, to the temple and out to eat.  While we were at the temple I learned (re-learned) a few things.  We were introduced to two different sealers.  In the process of events we learned that both of them were mission presidents.  One was jovial, and wanted to talk and create connections.  The other was somber, business-like, and professional.  Both were very useful to the Lord.  I think that when we are obedient, our personalities, although different, are enhanced. 
As I sat and looked at "the temple mirrors of eternity" I realized that I am defined by my family relations.  I am only as useful as what I give to others.  I also realized that, in a very real sense, spiritual strength comes from ETERNAL FAMILY TIES. 

When my deep thoughts were through, we enjoyed Applebees, all the way from appetizer to dessert.  Jared said, "I don't want any dessert, but you get one."  And then he proceeded to eat 3/4 of mine.  Thats okay, I am only as useful as what I give to others, RIGHT?!  :)